Untold Stories Post 16: KITCAT AND CAT

It was in late 1990’s that one day my litter sister Kritika Milind and my dad were playing with a wild cat outside the house. My sister was very small and she did not know that its bad to pull the cat’s tail and not all cats like that to do with them. The cat got angry and she scratched/bit my sis in fraction of seconds. It was thought a minor scratch but as the cat was Wild one and not the domestic one, Dolly has to go through series ofpreventive injections taken in direct dose in her stomach. As a kid who cannot even properly speak, she use to just cry to avoid taking injections and whenever she sense that parents use to take her out to doctor, she use to hide somewhere where I use to help parents in catching her.
Most of the time as my dad’s vehicle was only efficient to carry 3 people I was left alone in the house and had to wait for Mom, Dad and Dolly for every hospital session. Every time they came back I use to see a KIT-KAT on Dolly’s hand and she slowly munching the Chocolate bar.
This was a weekly routine and when every time I see KIT-KAT on her hand while returning home. I use to imagine the sweetness of kit kat which I rarely had as the Chocolate bar was an expensive one for a Middle Class family where I was growing my childhood days.
Day by Day, week by week I started becoming jealous and one day I talked with my mom about it..

I will tell you the same thing what my mom told to a 5th standard kid that time,

“YOU CAN ONLY SEE THE KITKAT IN HER HAND AND UNFORTUNATELY YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO SEE THE PAIN WHICH SHE FACES WHEN AN THICK INJECTION NEEDLE ENTERS HER STOMACH”

That thing is still true with the world around. I find the 5th grade kid in everyone. Everyone is jealous of one point or the other with their own dear surrounding, its not their mistake that they are jealous or envy others, the only point is they need a mother who can explain them that they are not able to see the pain which people are going through before getting the KIT-KAT

Untold Stories Post 15: OLD AGE

 

I was driving my Car with a speed of 100 on Gimpy-Brisbane Highway M3, There was A Dark RED Lamborghini Following my Car. My speed was 100 constantly and then I see the RED Lamborghini slowly Over taking me on my path.
There was a good loud music going on inside the Car which was difficult to hear as My car gives crappy noise to me. The Car Went from my right and crossed me in a matter of 30 to 40 seconds. I was dazzled to see the Car Again…
A pair of Ladies Definitely around or above the age of 60 were Driving the Car.
RED LAMBORGHINI DRIVEN BY 2 OLD LADIES, might be a normal thing in Australia, but for me It was a scene of appreciation.
I was Jealous for some moments and then I said to myself, THIS IS THE LIFE I WANTED.
In INDIA it is believed that once you are at age of 60, Its your age to DIE.
But here in AUSTRALIA or most of the Western Countries, LIFE STARTS AT 60.

I assumed this is the LIFE I WANTED, THIS IS THE LIFE I WANT MY PARENTS TO LIVE.

World CLASS LIVING.
Life is only ONCE thus Make the Maximum out of it..

AB MUZ KO JEENAAA…
(Now I WANT to LIVE)

Untold Stories Post 14: Killing Your OWN CHILD

I am a Bio-technologist, I like to poss off or actually distribute my share of knowledge that I Learned by paying Huge Sum of money going to different schools, universities and other Educational Institutions,
I was just discussing about various options and new technology what we have these days. Medical Science, Plant Biotechnology, Bio weapons, Bio Fuel and Even Bio Metrics
One female approached me in my shift during Sun-crop Stadium retail staffing event and asked me, Can you or your technology determine sex of my child I am carrying,
Yes, I replied politely and I asked Why you want to know that???
She dogged my question and asked me again, How much time is required for the test or how much days has to be over for the test to occur?
I answered her query and informed here that test takes hardly two minutes with the technology we have right now…and can be done in less than 4 weeks after Pregnancy
She asked do you know someone who can do this test form me??
Yes I replied again, but before that I need to know Why you want to know the sex of your child?

She finally Replied, I already have a Girl Child, I wanted a boy Child now to carry forward my generation and protect this girl child.

I was shocked to hear this that After Coming to Australia, I am meeting people of such a strong base mentality.

I asked her again, So you mean you will abort this child if thats a girl?? You will destroy her right to come in this world only because your choice of sex progeny is a Male Child.
She did not reply to this question and Just requested me again to gain the contact information of the person I know that can do these test for her.

I replied politely I cant understand your situation right now but according my ethics that I learned till date, I cannot give you that information as the motive is not strong enough.

I said sorry I cannot give that information to you.
In Australia yes getting info about sex of child before birth is legal but, But killing your own child just because of your choice of your choice of sex for a progeny is unethical to me.

I have nothing to teach you out of this story today. I am shocked myself.

Untold Story Post 13: RESPECTING WOMEN

This scene happened recently while I was coming back form a Sun crop Shift. I Boarded the Train form Aurchenflower to Toowong, Brisbane, AUSTRALIA.

Four Boys after enjoying the Game Were sitting in Front of me in a 4 person compartmental seat and next to them near the exit door came and sat a HOT girl about the age between 20 to 25,
One of the Guy started Teasing her wearing a Mask and Imitating the Guy’s figure whoz mask was on. The Girl Ignored Those Guys.
I was very Curious what Is happening Around as throughout my life I have never seen any girl been teased in front of my eyes.
Then the tezing continued and Girl ignored every comment by the guys around.

Then Came a Hero and One guy said to them that “Cant You see the Girl is not interested to Talk with you”
The guy in mask turned back and said to his friends, ohh the Girl is not interested to talk with me.

The girl turned to that HERO Guy and Said “THANK YOU”

That was the MOMENT WHEN I LOST ALL MY RESPECT TOWARDS THE GIRL.

The hero guy went out in next station, and I did not get down at my stop. I wanted to see more.

The guy in mask said, NOW he has gone, NOW what you will do?
Girls expression changed. She was sad all of a sudden.
MY curious mind coudn’t tolerate this
I went and sat next to her.
Asked her ‘Y she was sad ?’
She said “NOW I am ALL RIGHT”

I said then I can get back to my Seat and I continued my journey.
Girl went out of train at next station And After that in next two station I started talking with the four guys, They were all harmless guys Chilling out after some beer after a Big Game in the train.

I wrote this post Title RESPECTING WOMEN,
But Seriously When Women Cannot RESPECT THEMSELVES,
THEY NEED OTHER MEN TO PROTECT THEM,
They Cannot Protect Themselves
Or be affected by some Teazing by others,
Or WHEN THEY CANNOT FIGHT THEIR OWN BATTLE.

I DON’T have any RESPECT to THOSE WOMEN.

When you want EQUALITY, LEARN TO FIGHT YOUR OWN BATTLE AND STOP TAKING OTHER MEN’S SUPPORT..

‪#‎tapishdongre‬ ‪#‎ustp‬

Untold Stories Post 12: THE TRUE INDIAN

Year 2015 here in Australia, when an Two Strangers Meet on Street, They ask the common Questions like
Person 1 :How You Going?
Person 2: I am Fine Thanks for Asking, How you Going?
Person 1: Yes I am good Too, Where are you form Brother?
Person 2 : I am an Aussi Mate, from so & so place.
Person 1 : Nice to meet you
Person 2 : Nice to meet you.

BUT when People go on street in my country, or even here when I meet an INDIAN, The conversation mostly goes:

Person 1: How are you ?
Person 2: I am fine thank You, Where are you From?
Person 1: I am From The Great Nation of INDIA
Person 2: Which Part of India?
Person 1: Central.
Person 2: I mean Which State?
Person 1: I am From Maharashtra.
Person 2: What Part in Maharashtra?
Person 1: Nagpur.
Person 2: Which Religion do you region Follow?
Person 1: Humanity.
Person 2: I mean Religion wise you are a Hindu, Muslim or Christian.

Person 1 Walk out of Conversation if he feels not to Reply to this question or Continues the conversation if at he feels that Person 2 is of Same Caste, State, Religion etc etc..

I know there might be Varied Vantage point comments below this status, But Do answer my 1st question. ARE YOU A TRUE INDIAN ? IF yes then Why or IF no then Why NOT, or What will Make every Indian residing in or Away form the country a TRUE INDIAN?

Please let me know because I am actually Fed up with the above Conversation.

On 26th January 2015 I wish all

Happy Republic Day of India
and
Happy Australian Day

Untold Story Post 11: The Anger

In the Year 2007, I applied for Driving Licence for the first Time in RTO Nagpur, India. Due to excess corruption in the office I was not aware of the shortcuts and I had to wait More than the time what the so called “Exclusive” People which had the permission to Cross the line and Do their work in-Discipline. Ha ha 🙂

After the procedure was done by waiting in line for the whole day and several ways of attitude shown by RTO officer who pass the people for the Test, I submitted my file and Came home. I was promised that I will be getting my Licence in next 14 Days.

14 Days passed I went to Office, They said Kindly Wait for some time,
I waited the whole month, Then I did another visit to the office. They said, its not done yet, please come some other day.
From that day, in search of Another day I visited office every two days and inquired about it.
Day after day My patience each time kept on loosing.
Day after day The anger Kept on Increasing
I decided the day I get my Licence, I am going to Screw these people for torturing me like that.

Then Finally on an Unexpected afternoon, the “ONE DAY” arrived. They handed me my licence. The moment I holed the licence on my hand, realizing the authority to DRIVE on Road for rest of my life. All MY ANGER was VANISHED.

I thanked the receptionist and came back home.

The story just mean to say that Anger, Lust, Hurt, Pain, Sex Craving All are Temporary Variables in life. If you can manage them properly, I am not saying to stop them, But if you can manage them properly in the right direction, Life is Smooth as Butter and Sweet as Honey…

All the Best Folks….Happy Day

‪#‎tapishdongre‬ ‪#‎utsp‬

(Note: The RTO, Nagpur is still a corrupted office, if you want to make licence then you gotta empty your pocket and become an Exclusive member to do your work quick or Be my guest and Fight against the people who uses the Exclusive member policy at RTO, Nagpur INDIA) The Choice was, Is and Will Always Be yours 🙂

UNTOLD Stories Post 10: The Cesarean baby

As per as I remember, my sister Kritika Milind was a Cesarean Baby, or there were complications involved at the time of birth.
Cesarean Operation is a medical process where the baby due to complications or size could not be delivered by Natural Delivery and has to taken out of mothers womb by making a small cut horizontally on the outer surface near the stomach.
At that time my father was given a choice, weather to save my little sister or my mother herself.
My father Could never decided whom to chose for. He loves kids and My mom’s life was precious to him. He dined to choose between two, and requested…or actually Forced Doctors that let the risk be on my father’s name but to save both.
The outcome was astonishing and yes you can predict that now anyway, Today my mom, Tejashri Milind and my sister, both are in pink of their health.

The memory of this scene gave me one point to note and learn after 18 years of this incident, I learned from my father that whenever you are given two options in life.
Weather to choose option Option A or Option B,
Think logically, Y should you Follow the rules created by someone else on you..
Demand for an Option C which is the optimal choice for your benefit.

Don’t settle down for what people offer you, as each and every choice will be responsible for the survival of someone’s life smile emoticon

‪#‎tapishdongre‬ ‪#‎utsp‬

Untold Stories Post 9: How U Going Mate :) ?

November 2014, I was working for G20 in Airport, there everyone was alien to each other, People of All Countries working together to make the event a Success,
One Guy was assigned to drop us at the spot and pick the guys up who’s shift got over. That guy had lot of pressure to complete certain task in time and he was shouting on people for no reason, We all kept quite as he was senior to us. He dropped one guy and said to us, He is an dick head, cant get out of the Vehicle in time, Even that fella took time to come Enter the car at Entry Gate.
One Unknown Aussi sitting back in seating back seat of our car Replied to him, Mate TALK THIS ON HIS FACE, NOT BEHIND HIS BACK.

As I am an Indian, talking behind someone back was usual to me. I dint like it but the culture I was born and the people I was raised with, Talked Behind People’s Back and created Rumors and fake stories which the original person is not even aware of..

After Several Days, On a Very Different Topic, two teenagers Tim andBrent Gesch Explained me, Australian Culture works this way, In our Army and Working area Buddy System is Being taught. We help each other and Grow Together, We don’t care we know that person or not. As long as he is in our Surrounding, He is our Mate. He is our Friend and its our duty to protect him, help him grow and He will do the same for us.

So Who is “Mate” I questioned.
The answer was stunning given by this teenager and he replied,
“EVERYBODY IS”

‪#‎tapishdongre‬ ‪#‎utsp‬

Untold Story Post 8: Respecting Yourself

A question is mostly asked in Interview, How are you worth of ? or How much you think company should pay you? or What Salary do you expect ?
Put the question in any way, the Question just means that the person evaluating you wants to know How confident are you on yourself and how much profit you can gain to Company that they should pay u the amount you deserve…
I don’t know the answer of this question but one guy did something in his real life
Once in early 2011, this guy calls me “Hey form today I am planning to take an elevation to my name and instead of Bhartal, I want to call my self THE BHATATLAL CHOUDHARY.
Subconsciously My mind accepted the simple sentence, Simplicity has that power.From that day I actually started Calling him THE BHARATLAL CHOUDHARY.

Now he Has become a Mentor and Bharatlal Choudhary or THE BHARATLAL CHOUDHARY is on his step to teach his students what he learned in his life…

The observation in this story is just that The amount of Respect you Give to Yourself, People will automatically follow you. If you think you are worthless or a minute creature in this world, you will become one. If you think you can compete Tata, Birla, Ambani, Gates, Jobs, YOU CAN ACTUALLY DO THAT..
People will respect you what you believe in..
(And constant believe with persistence not one day hero)

So Make a Change in this year 2015 and Show the World The NEW PERSON in you,
Who is Much more Stronger than what you WERE in 2014
Happy New Year..
and
All the Best as

Your BATTLE BEGINS NOW

‪#‎tapishdongre‬ ‪#‎utsp‬

Untold Stories Post 7 Culture Breed

Today I was comming back from Suncrop Job and I boarded Train from Milton to Brisbane
I sat on a window seat and I reallized one small boy wanted that seat as it had a window..
I got up and offered that seat to him and his mother and I sat In side seat without window.
While this,
As soon as the boy occupied the seat, Mother looked at the child and said in a very sweet voice, WHAT YOU SHOULD SAYYY?????

The boy replied, “THANK YOU”

I said Welcome and continued my Journey..

The Point I wanted to make you observe is the very Small Small things taught to Kids in Australia and Even in other countries make the Nation A beautiful place to Live

Hats off to every MOTHER who teaches the small but important Culture and Atticates and contibute in making a Responsible Humans…
Good Nights Friends
Have a Blast for 2014 End Eve 🙂

‪#‎tapishdongre‬ ‪#‎utsp‬