UNTOLD Stories Post 2. Wishing Happy Birthday to HIM on 19th November 2014

After a pre medial diagnosis and record of Vascular Necrosis and Anxiety Neurosis, A man breaths every day with a courage of Lion. Struggles every day to support his family, Maintain the faith of togetherness and ultimate aim of Progress within the individual and the surrounding.
Coming form a conventional cultural thinking tries his best to understand present generation thoughts like Live in Relationship, Concept of GF/BF i.e Partners before Marriage etc etc. Its difficult for him but he try his best to digest new concepts and maintain a pace with the new generation.
Deprived quality education, He aims his next generation to reach the highest literacy limit and he proved this point admitting his son to Higher Education Overseas and His Daughter to get a Medical Seat in Renowned Medical University.
He gives his wife utmost respect and freedom of what he deprived to her in initial years of marriage. He Supports his wife, kids and all fellas who he believes as a family member.
Forgetting all family grudges, He dreams to see all his Brothers together in one shelter for at least one time before sleeping on his death bead. He believes in a completely new concept that “He in an Engine to a train where all compartments are scattered. And if he stops functioning the whole train will become at rest and thrown out of track” Thus he takes care of Condemn House with an Hope that the birds once flew away, will come back home one day, sit and eat together.
He was a person with power of “varanam ayiram” in my life an encourage me to fight my battles of life with courage, dignity and faith in yourself.

I cannot thank him by words to give me chance to come in this world. But I could still feel the support of first time he holed me in his arms when I was born. And promise myself to give him the same comfort when he is leaving this physical world. To man of his words and power of thousand elephants and attitude of Lion, I wish Milind R Dongre Hearty Wishes on his Birthday.

Happy Birthday Father,
From His proud Son – Tapish Dongre ‪#‎tapishdongre‬
Daughter: Kritika Milind
And Wife Tejashri Milind ‪#‎utsp‬

UNTOLD Stories Post 1

A Mom was challenged by her Own Father in Law that your kids don’t deserve Better education, Your kids are not going to achive anything in life. They are grand children of an Rikshaw Puller(maternal) and they are going to be the same for rest of their life.
SHE ACCEPTED THE CHALLENGE.
With limited amount of finance, with limited amount of resources and Awesome managerial skills, she made her kids Engineers and Proud Future Owners of Dongre Group of Industries.
I salute a the Mom of such inspiration and Salute her struggle to fight own family members to achieve her goal.
I SALUTE RAJASHRI R DONGRE for her hardwork and Congratulate her for winning the Challange 🙂
Asit Dongre Padma Dongre Tejashri Milind Kritika Milind Sonakshi DongreGrinita Dongre Ninad Dongre ‪#‎tapishdongre‬ ‪#‎utsp‬

UTSP: Untold Stories Post

UTSP is the series of short stories of my life events which are very simple and worth sharing.

You can search all my post anywhere in media under the hash tag #tapishdongre

And My Untold Stories Post under the tag #utsp

The original post is on Facebook and This website will have a copy of all the post in a Series.

 

Welcome to My life 🙂

Tapish Dongre #tapishdongre #utsp

Harry Potter Returns

If  I could manage to Get 1000 likes for this story, I will Publish this book as per public Demand.

The Year is 2035, Craze of Harry Potter, the famous Novel written by J.K.Rowling is fading away with time. People believe the Harry Potter Books, Comics and Cos play Uniform is a collectible now. The story of the Boy Who Lived is a classic one. But The deep believers always believed that there is always possibility that an crystal clear Imagination of J,K. Rowling is not fictional one, she has seen something what we, the general public has not. People started entering and discovering the lifestyle of the author, but failed again and again. The research is still on…..we hope to uncover the fact some day some time…

Million Copies of the Book sold, 1000’s of cos play flying broom and magic wands reached public already, ebay.com got the highest hit index to buy model of Nimbus 2000 and Ron’s Magical Wand, though broken one but still functioning,

Functioning…????? Really or Its an imagination???? Or simply a believe that makes the story true, But I discovered this boy Named Ayush in Central India, in the states of Maharashtra, who had something different that grew my interest in him. Ayush is studding in Class XI and earns more than 30 Thousand Rupees in a month. This is an Ideal salary what professional Engineers Could earn if placed in well known company of India. But this teenage boy either had different level of skills that it was believable that he could earn the amount and stand on his own feet at an early age.

I tried to earn in many Different ways, but I was not able to achieve what this child could attain in age of 19 years, My failures made me angry on myself but curiosity to learn his ways of earning was much higher than the jealousy factor I had in me. I tried my best to gel with this guy and be with him to learn his secrets. The only things I have Discover was, He likes playing video games, watches lot of Television Serials, Has learned lot of different languages, some existing in real world and some fictional languages which is used by elves and other species of the fictional stories of my knowledge. His room is full of collectible from  different cartoons, storybooks, novels, movies. The only Idea I could have by entering his room was, This boy lives in a fictional world.

His computer had Iron-Man shaped Wireless Mouse, Pencil stand was in shape of Skull form the movie Indiana Jones, Stupid Harry Potter Magical Wand stick always hanging as a wind chain which strikes my head everytime I entered his room, Saskue’s Sword form the anime Naruto as a display on his Table. The room was full of mess and books everywhere that there was no place to sit peacefully. I couldn’t take the messy surrounding and preferred to stay out of his filthy palace and breath fresh air in the real living world. The curiosity dropped completely and I stopped judging his ideas and started my ways of thinking how I can earn money and find things in real world as I am not Ayush Ghotekar.

Once Ayush Came to my house and said, Bro I want to show you something, I assumed this must be a new electronic device which he shows me every time he purchase something new, He said its interesting and little scary so he wants someone to be with him when we go there. I explained him there is no place on our outskirts  where you will feel scary and curios too to enter that you cannot go…

He said what If I want to take you more farther than our outskirts? To which, I replied Oh you want to go to city, let me take my motorbike,  I will drive you there.

He gave me a wired and skeptical look and said bro just come with me, I want to take you somewhere more far, A place you have been there before, but its different that what we expected or told…

I was still puzzled and I said, Ayush, lets not cross the state border it will takes us days to come back. Ayush got angry and Busted: You are not listening  to me you have to experience it yourself. Hold This he said and handed me a dummy Magical wand form the story Harry Potter which usually is hanging on his wind chain. The wand was actually so heavy that I wondered for the first time, how did he managed to carry this till here, and on the first place, how did this wand was hanging as wind chain as only lighter materials are kept for the make of wind chain.

He told me then, Stop Believing in what you have learned so far and keep your brain pre-occupied in thoughts that you don’t have space to fit new Ideas. The world is different that what you have studied form last 25 years. Believe me, thought you might have traveled whole India and Australia, you have not seen even an inch of the world what I have seen in last six months. Keep your mind open and observe the changes around you. Now you have to observe that I am not moving my lips but still you are able to read my thoughts loud and clear, Cant you UNDERSTAND????

I dropped the stick on my hand in Panic and dropped on floor as my brain shut down instantly that I was not able to accept this change happening around me.

When I woke up the stick was again in my hand and somewhere from long Ayush was calling..Do you still want to take rest or come to the world I want to show you??? If you are ready come to my house as soon as possible.

I dint had a second thought. I completely forgot that I have an assignment to submit the next morning and I took my bike and rushed towards Ayush’s House hiding the wand in my bag. When I entered his room again, the filthy mess dint bothered me, I was more curious to know more and more about the wand and then he said, Seriously Pajama and this Night T-shirt, is this the way you  dress up for a journey to Hogwarts school????

I said, WHAAATTT????

He took the wand form my bag. Drew an Imaginary door in front empty wall  which turned yellow on the go, and then he said…Lets step in into this Jelly thing, I will answer all the questions running in your mind at the speed of light on our way to this wonderland.

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I welcome You all to our journey to Rediscover the World of Harry Potter, which is completely changed in these number of years. Learn Scientifically Equation form all your school and university level Applied in the story line. Get exposed to Spirtiual awakening, a step by step process to train your subconscious mind.

If you want me to keep on writing, just like my page/this post, keep sharing my work and let me know if you want to read further 🙂

Happy Day

See you Soon 🙂

#tapishdongre

The PROPOSAL

On 26th Dec 2008, I proposed my life partner for the first time. Night After Christmas, Half an Hour before the Girl hostel closing timing, After dropping her form the Mathematics Tuition Class in Nagpur, I expressed my feelings to her without bothering about what she has plans for me or not. For a teenage boy, any proposal takes a varied emotions imbalance when he is afraid of the rejection and keeps on postponing his proposal dates because of the fear of Rejection. But on this day I over came this fear…

Today After 6 years of this incident, I wrote a poem in Indian National Language (HINDI) expressing same emotional imbalance what I had on those days:

Puchna Hai TUM se Muze kuch Magar

Darta HU TUM Naa To Nahi Kahogi

Jab Dekah tumko pheli bar

Karne laga man mei batien do char

Kuch Meethi thi, Kuch Khatti thi

Par Baiten Dil se Sacchi thi

Usme tha Kabi ikraar aur kabi inkaar

Socha tum se Puch hi lu, par

Darta tha TUM Naa To Nahi Kahogi

Socha Tumhe, Chaha Tumha

Har pal apna mana tumhe

Dil ki aawaz aane lagi labo pe

Par roka maine kuhd ko is daar se

Puchunga to tum Naa to Nahi Kahogi

Sadiya Raat Ho gai

Gharwalo se baat ho gai

Samay ki seedi jo humne Chadi thi

Aaage shayad saamapt se ho gai

Puchna tha tumse magar

Darta that Tum Na to Nahi Kahogi

Sacchi Jhuti baato mei jo teri hasi thi

Na Jane Kab meri Zindagi ban gai

Yu hi bani Kavita se puch liea,

PARI, TUM KAHI NAA TO NAHI KAHOGI ???

Ye hai mere sapno ka haalath

Ab raha na jata teri bin kare kuch baat

Ab shabdo ke alaankar se puch hi liea

Kahi Tum Naa To Nahi Kahogi

Khena hai Tum se Aaj Bhi Magar

Darta Hu, Tum Naa to Nahi Kahogi…

-Tapish Dongre

Break UP Memories

After hearing all form most of people about their break up in mid NOV and DEC 2014, I was inspired to write about Breakup.

Actually people may think that Break up is not at all an inspiring topic to write about, but for me it is…

Breakup is a phase where we are emotionally disturbed as the momentum to stay dependent on our partner is disturbed by some external force (Newton’s 1st law). Let the external force be another person or change of interest or created misunderstandings or unavoidable circumstances. As per my experience Breakup for me is very difficult to handle as I am a very emotional sensitive guy, but experience taught me that Breakup is an temporary phase to stay and move on. New is always better and we learn a lot form our past experience that we are ready to avoid that factor in our next relationship.

So here a story  about my first Breakup:

 

It was in 2004/2005 during my class X board exam period in Hyderabad, the girl whom I plan to spend my life with came with all the gifts I gave her, destroyed into pieces and kept in an Yellow Polythene bag handed over to me, saying lot of stuff till date I cannot figure out what that mean to me. A guy, one of my classmate was with her(Nikesh/Nikhlesh) and he came to me and said, “shame on you.”

More than my breakup I was angry that an Alien person who has no knowledge about me and my girlfriend’s relationship has came with her and speaking against me.

That time calculated something and wrote on my dairy which I promise myself to open in 20 years and follow whats written in. I explained myself with simple logic that if a girl takes third party to explain or support her statement to me then there are two factors to learn her

1) She feels unsafe to withstand my anger on breakup (which makes my choice clear that in future i must chooze a girl who is more bold in facing me)

2) She needs some else to express what she has to say to me (which guides me that I did not made her comfortable to speak the truth to me that she had to take another person, tell the truth about me to him and talk to me back)

I was aware that as Human, my powers are limited and when my anger cools down I will have a natural tendency to forgive for what she did to me. So to remind myself I need something strong that will stop me form getting along with her again,

Thus I check the yellow polythene given by her again,

I checked there was watch, some papers/letter/greeting cards and a diary what I gifted to her on our first Valentines Day. Inside the dairy there was 26 INR what that she returned to me after calculating what I spent on her. I discovered that a girl with this amount of ego and pride over her father’s earned money is definitely no match for me. So I kept that two 10 INR notes, one 5 INR note and a one rupee coin with me till date which reminds me that why I should not got back to her again.

I am not saying that everyone should hold themselves back to fall into same relationship with same person, But as you know the that person the most, and there are higher chances for history to repeat itself. And I am not that strong to take that chance and feel the pain again. I kept the one rupee coin as a strong memory naming it “Kalvi’s Coin” reminding me to move on and learn more form life.

I and My sister Kritika Dongre believes in one strong point by HIMYM

“NEW IS ALWAYS BETTER.”

So in search of this better one, my journey continued and I believe I finally after several failures I found one 🙂

But more on that later…

Happy Break UP guys

Congratulations on Commencement of a New Journey……Never give up till you find your right match

Happy Day EVERYDAY

After the LETTER I made a VIDEO

After hearing the news that my partner’s visa will be late by 6 months in total I was more frustrated and made this video after getting Drunk a lot..

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Then I re posted this video on FB, Youtube, Whats app and many other places and asked Myself in a drunk state that when I woke up in sober condition, I must not delete it.

 

So I am follwoing a drunk person’s advice, but Its kinda fun….

 

Letter to Australian Visa Office As my Partner’s Visa was Delayed

Greetings for the Day

My Name is Tapish Dongre, and I have applied visa for my wife Before 12
weeks form now.
Initially it was told us that student dependent visa takes up to 4 to 6
weeks,

I came to know that It takes more than that time and I was misguided by the
4 to 6 weeks data,
Then it was informed to me that Visa will be done in 12-14 weeks.

Sir/Madam, Its an request to please process the visa as early as possible.
Its little lonely out here. Though I have friends but I need my wife for
obvious reasons.

Sex life has become worse. I really feel jealous when my room mates gets
new girls every Friday and disturbs my sleep through out the week end, and
as I am committed, this add up the trouble.
I tried EMA but my Heart dose not allow to for other girls.
Due to the struggle we faced together to maintain our relationship form
last five years, May be my wife is HardWired into my mental life.
Plus Emotional comfort is very difficult to have on only telephonic and
skype conversions, Long Distant relationship is very difficult to maintain.
Please don’t think this letter is wired because I am speaking out the truth
as I am little frustrated
Plus the time lag, I want to sleep when she wants to talk to me, And she
wants to sleep when I want to talk to her….When we both commit to a time
together, I am messing up with my health to maintain my relationship. and
had an Insomnia record

So please please process her visa as fast as possible.

Her Details are

Name: ANUPAM JYOTI
DOB: 14th Dec 1989
PASSPORT NO. K8530594
Phone Number +91 9431471667
VLN: AUX-IN-03-028954-X

My Details

Name Tapish Dongre
DOB: 6th Sep 1989
Passport NO. K8188821
Phone Number +61 415 370 974

Sir Call us, ask as many questions you like, But please process the visa as
soon as possible.
I want to hug my wife
Kiss her giving the reply for the love she have for me
Take care of her as she takes care of me
I want to see my reflection on her eyes
I want to fight with her
Fight for all those moments what I have missed form long time
I want to provide her with what I can earn through my hard work and talent.

I am a Biotechnologist, a Reseacher, A scientist, A Magition and A writer,
but more than that I am a Husband who need his partner to be along by side
to watch all this progress I am doing and comfort me by saying “Asshole
wakeup go and fight one more battle, You have the potential and You will do
it”

Yours sincerely
Tapish Dongre

Taking Break….Will B Back Soon

A long break form wirting friends and till date there has lot of ups and downs in my journey…

M in Australia
Got Engaged before comming her
Pre-Determined Thoughts about a lot of things changed in new envrironment..
There is really great stories to tell you all…and I promice myslef to start writing again form November 2013
Happy Day Guys

I will b back soon… 🙂