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Untold Stories Post 7 Culture Breed

Today I was comming back from Suncrop Job and I boarded Train from Milton to Brisbane
I sat on a window seat and I reallized one small boy wanted that seat as it had a window..
I got up and offered that seat to him and his mother and I sat In side seat without window.
While this,
As soon as the boy occupied the seat, Mother looked at the child and said in a very sweet voice, WHAT YOU SHOULD SAYYY?????

The boy replied, “THANK YOU”

I said Welcome and continued my Journey..

The Point I wanted to make you observe is the very Small Small things taught to Kids in Australia and Even in other countries make the Nation A beautiful place to Live

Hats off to every MOTHER who teaches the small but important Culture and Atticates and contibute in making a Responsible Humans…
Good Nights Friends
Have a Blast for 2014 End Eve 🙂

‪#‎tapishdongre‬ ‪#‎utsp‬

UNTOLD Stories Post 3: College Days

Proffessor: Stand up Gaurank, you should stand up when u are answering to a teacher.
Gaurank: Yes professor
Proffessor: Where is your tie? Why are u not in proper uniform?
Gaurank: Sorry Professor, I FORGOT.
Proffessor: (Angryli) How can you forget? Tell me why did you forget?
Gaurank: THERE IS NO REASON TO EXPALIN WHY PEOPLE FORGET THINGS

In this conversation I am not pointing anyone was wrong. But I apprietiate the way Gaurank Handle the situation. He was though kicked out of class after this, but I dont find anything what he said as wrong. The education system in India faces several such situation where Teachers take undue advantage of students and take out anger of someone elese in the mangement on students.
Students in turn dont reply back, very rare absorb the anger by the proffessor and most of them starts hating the professor and in turn the subject. THERE THE WHOLE PURPOSE OF EDUCATION STOPS.

The same student expresses his anger when he is in power or to his young ones and the chain of anger continues.

I believe You guys must have solution to this probem becauses I dont have it…
But I truly appritiate Gaurank’s attitude who currently discontinued his education form PIET nagpur and is having a sweet shop in Sitaburdy Nagpur (Near Ghanghor).
Post in comments if u have any possible solution to avoid people leaving education in our country…

‪#‎tapishdongre‬ ‪#‎utsp‬

UNTOLD Stories Post 2. Wishing Happy Birthday to HIM on 19th November 2014

After a pre medial diagnosis and record of Vascular Necrosis and Anxiety Neurosis, A man breaths every day with a courage of Lion. Struggles every day to support his family, Maintain the faith of togetherness and ultimate aim of Progress within the individual and the surrounding.
Coming form a conventional cultural thinking tries his best to understand present generation thoughts like Live in Relationship, Concept of GF/BF i.e Partners before Marriage etc etc. Its difficult for him but he try his best to digest new concepts and maintain a pace with the new generation.
Deprived quality education, He aims his next generation to reach the highest literacy limit and he proved this point admitting his son to Higher Education Overseas and His Daughter to get a Medical Seat in Renowned Medical University.
He gives his wife utmost respect and freedom of what he deprived to her in initial years of marriage. He Supports his wife, kids and all fellas who he believes as a family member.
Forgetting all family grudges, He dreams to see all his Brothers together in one shelter for at least one time before sleeping on his death bead. He believes in a completely new concept that “He in an Engine to a train where all compartments are scattered. And if he stops functioning the whole train will become at rest and thrown out of track” Thus he takes care of Condemn House with an Hope that the birds once flew away, will come back home one day, sit and eat together.
He was a person with power of “varanam ayiram” in my life an encourage me to fight my battles of life with courage, dignity and faith in yourself.

I cannot thank him by words to give me chance to come in this world. But I could still feel the support of first time he holed me in his arms when I was born. And promise myself to give him the same comfort when he is leaving this physical world. To man of his words and power of thousand elephants and attitude of Lion, I wish Milind R Dongre Hearty Wishes on his Birthday.

Happy Birthday Father,
From His proud Son – Tapish Dongre ‪#‎tapishdongre‬
Daughter: Kritika Milind
And Wife Tejashri Milind ‪#‎utsp‬

The PROPOSAL

On 26th Dec 2008, I proposed my life partner for the first time. Night After Christmas, Half an Hour before the Girl hostel closing timing, After dropping her form the Mathematics Tuition Class in Nagpur, I expressed my feelings to her without bothering about what she has plans for me or not. For a teenage boy, any proposal takes a varied emotions imbalance when he is afraid of the rejection and keeps on postponing his proposal dates because of the fear of Rejection. But on this day I over came this fear…

Today After 6 years of this incident, I wrote a poem in Indian National Language (HINDI) expressing same emotional imbalance what I had on those days:

Puchna Hai TUM se Muze kuch Magar

Darta HU TUM Naa To Nahi Kahogi

Jab Dekah tumko pheli bar

Karne laga man mei batien do char

Kuch Meethi thi, Kuch Khatti thi

Par Baiten Dil se Sacchi thi

Usme tha Kabi ikraar aur kabi inkaar

Socha tum se Puch hi lu, par

Darta tha TUM Naa To Nahi Kahogi

Socha Tumhe, Chaha Tumha

Har pal apna mana tumhe

Dil ki aawaz aane lagi labo pe

Par roka maine kuhd ko is daar se

Puchunga to tum Naa to Nahi Kahogi

Sadiya Raat Ho gai

Gharwalo se baat ho gai

Samay ki seedi jo humne Chadi thi

Aaage shayad saamapt se ho gai

Puchna tha tumse magar

Darta that Tum Na to Nahi Kahogi

Sacchi Jhuti baato mei jo teri hasi thi

Na Jane Kab meri Zindagi ban gai

Yu hi bani Kavita se puch liea,

PARI, TUM KAHI NAA TO NAHI KAHOGI ???

Ye hai mere sapno ka haalath

Ab raha na jata teri bin kare kuch baat

Ab shabdo ke alaankar se puch hi liea

Kahi Tum Naa To Nahi Kahogi

Khena hai Tum se Aaj Bhi Magar

Darta Hu, Tum Naa to Nahi Kahogi…

-Tapish Dongre

Break UP Memories

After hearing all form most of people about their break up in mid NOV and DEC 2014, I was inspired to write about Breakup.

Actually people may think that Break up is not at all an inspiring topic to write about, but for me it is…

Breakup is a phase where we are emotionally disturbed as the momentum to stay dependent on our partner is disturbed by some external force (Newton’s 1st law). Let the external force be another person or change of interest or created misunderstandings or unavoidable circumstances. As per my experience Breakup for me is very difficult to handle as I am a very emotional sensitive guy, but experience taught me that Breakup is an temporary phase to stay and move on. New is always better and we learn a lot form our past experience that we are ready to avoid that factor in our next relationship.

So here a story  about my first Breakup:

 

It was in 2004/2005 during my class X board exam period in Hyderabad, the girl whom I plan to spend my life with came with all the gifts I gave her, destroyed into pieces and kept in an Yellow Polythene bag handed over to me, saying lot of stuff till date I cannot figure out what that mean to me. A guy, one of my classmate was with her(Nikesh/Nikhlesh) and he came to me and said, “shame on you.”

More than my breakup I was angry that an Alien person who has no knowledge about me and my girlfriend’s relationship has came with her and speaking against me.

That time calculated something and wrote on my dairy which I promise myself to open in 20 years and follow whats written in. I explained myself with simple logic that if a girl takes third party to explain or support her statement to me then there are two factors to learn her

1) She feels unsafe to withstand my anger on breakup (which makes my choice clear that in future i must chooze a girl who is more bold in facing me)

2) She needs some else to express what she has to say to me (which guides me that I did not made her comfortable to speak the truth to me that she had to take another person, tell the truth about me to him and talk to me back)

I was aware that as Human, my powers are limited and when my anger cools down I will have a natural tendency to forgive for what she did to me. So to remind myself I need something strong that will stop me form getting along with her again,

Thus I check the yellow polythene given by her again,

I checked there was watch, some papers/letter/greeting cards and a diary what I gifted to her on our first Valentines Day. Inside the dairy there was 26 INR what that she returned to me after calculating what I spent on her. I discovered that a girl with this amount of ego and pride over her father’s earned money is definitely no match for me. So I kept that two 10 INR notes, one 5 INR note and a one rupee coin with me till date which reminds me that why I should not got back to her again.

I am not saying that everyone should hold themselves back to fall into same relationship with same person, But as you know the that person the most, and there are higher chances for history to repeat itself. And I am not that strong to take that chance and feel the pain again. I kept the one rupee coin as a strong memory naming it “Kalvi’s Coin” reminding me to move on and learn more form life.

I and My sister Kritika Dongre believes in one strong point by HIMYM

“NEW IS ALWAYS BETTER.”

So in search of this better one, my journey continued and I believe I finally after several failures I found one 🙂

But more on that later…

Happy Break UP guys

Congratulations on Commencement of a New Journey……Never give up till you find your right match

Happy Day EVERYDAY