Untold Stories Post 77: The Noise

 

Only for this story I request everyone that please don’t quote character’s real names even if you know them personally as sometimes Mystery gives more fun in ambiguity.

I have to tell you one, two, three or 4 stories about THE NOISE, but before my story I should
tell and warn every reader that when taking about the noise, every inexperienced person can tell better stories about the same topic which I cannot compete in lifetime
Thus only my target audience for this post is limited to semi-experienced persons 🙂

So listen bro, Just Listen Bro…!!! Credit: Kenny Sebastian

Story 1 or the 1st Noise story started when I was in class IX probably in the year 2006-ish. I was living in Ordnance factory medak Yeddumailaram, a place little far away from twin city of Hyderabad and Secundrabad in India.

A newly couple got married and moved into top floor of my friends house. At teenage time we had very few things to play thus we figured out the detail research on THE NOISE time.
After dawn, Me along with my three other school buddies quietly climbed over the Roof Top and sat there for hours together to finally listen to sweet moan in female’s voice saying, “Vaddu, Vaddu, Vaddu….Vaddduuu..!”
Since I did not know the language Telugu at that time, my classmate explained me that “Vaddu means ‘No'”. Never got chance to talk with that couple but this became our school group’s favourite secrete activity to listen to The NOISE by climbing neighbour’s house rooftops.

Story 2 jumped forward to year 2013 when I entered Australia for the first time, I started living a Student Accommodation and I was so scared even to move out of my house and talk to my housemates. At night around 2 am my table started
shaking.
The table was kept in such a way that it touched with the wall connecting to next room. In dark light I initially thought that I am experiencing Earthquake and I cursed myself that I should have learned about Australia’s Geography
before boarding flight to here.
But then started the Noise along with the assumed earthquake. People reading this post and never had chance to visit Australia, let me tell you a speciality of houses here. Most of the houses here are made up of wood,
and compartmentalisation of room is done by thin wooden walls. Thus if anything is happening in Room next to you, in most cases you know or can hear what is actually happening.
And I should compliment the couple’s stamina that the noise continued passed 3 am along with a broken table lamp of my room which I had to replace when even it wasn’t my fault. The next day when I talked with this couple the girl was more of a bold attitude and gave an apology to be loud last night and the following afternoon as well. Where as the boy just gave a smirk smile with no words.

Story 3 goes to year 2016 when I was working in a retail restaurant at Brisbane Airport and my manager and the morning crew were also a good story tellers. Since I was the guy who use to do morning shift where
I found all other staff over experienced on THE NOISE degree,
I found myself got in conversation of what is socially called as “G-Talk”. That day I realised that even girls/women are good story tellers on the topic “THE NOISE” too. Two of my favourite dialogues of that conversation are “I cannot even remember how many times kids have walked upon
when I was with my husband.” and “My kid said, I heard Mommy there are funny noises coming out of your room in the night.” I know not workplace conversations, but truly speaking these conversations made me love my workplace and realise that,

“Fuck…at different stages of life, we understand a very different approach to physical relations.” The same word “SEX” can be mystery, anxious, rage, love, compassion, pity, need, regret, shame, achievement,
and can hold many other meanings depending upon the age and experience of an individual’s life. I could imagine that day what I would feel when someday in future at that right age
and time I have to explain my kids about intimate relationships.

But before I conclude, there is a 4th story when I was on other side of the “THE NOISE” prospectus

In Year 2017 when me and my partner returned back to Australia from India. We got complimentary Personal SUIT at Somewhere To Stay ” before actually getting a house to move in. The place was really good and thus we relaxed a bit.
The following night we started cooking at Common Kitchen and started talking to random strangers i.e making new friends and we realised that people were quoting our room number and explained brilliant stories about the “NOISES OF LOVE” .
For a second I looked at my partner and she looked at me and we started laughing a lot feeling extremely proud of that moment to be the Secret NOISE creates. We were the Smug of the day 🙂

Please feel free to share your “THE NOISE” story on the comments below.

Enjoy Your day, and Happy Week Ahead.

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Untold Stories Post 76: The Book

 

Only For You Sanmit Ambekar, this will be small post.

So on a random day, I walked down the platform number 5 at Central Railways Station Brisbane, Queensland, Australia to catch Ipswich lane which will lead me to my home in Toowong.
There were more than 50 people waiting for train on either side, but being writer myself I gazed upon a reader. A girl in her late 20’s, blond, slim in a blue dress with lily flower print on it, not covering her legs even when there is winter here.
She had a massive, book on her lap and was reading it with a constant gaze that the outside world dose not matter to her anymore.

I looked on display screen and it says that my train will be arriving in next 7 minutes. I know looking back to girl would be awkward as one you don’t stare at random girls even if they are cute, especially when you are married yourself 😉 .
And two that while you are watching someone there is always a possibility that someone is watching you. I hope the later someone is not a teen with his mobile camera ‘on’ shooting a per-vi-writer cum observer before he publishes his UTSP the following week.

But curiosity killed the cat and my eyes gazed back to the reader girl. I have no clue what she was reading, but I saw a tear coming down her left eye. She was crying while reading a book.!!!!!

Just in that moment, time froze for me. I went on a day dream to appreciate the artist who wrote the book. I still don’t know the book and I still don’t know the writer either but I could imagine the power of the words that a human can
fill in the white pages that can create an emotional turbulence in another human. Words are like power used in a right way can connect to you, doesn’t matter you are sitting right next to me, or oceans apart or even separated by time or generations.

On that frozen time I thought about myself, that would I ever be able to reach up to that level that I can create any emotion impact on my readers. The Tear being a powerful expression of emotion, but joy, fear, anger, anticipation, disappointment, and other various emotions including the “puzzle” what Sanmit Ambekar might be feeling that the story was promised small, but this guy doesn’t seem to stop writing at all.

I wondered would I ever be able to create an emotion with my writing, and if I could, that day I would consider myself paving my first brick in the world of successful writers.

But til then Keep enjoying small stories I write, and Sanmit Ambekar, I cant promise the next one would be a small story, but I am sure it will be an interesting one.

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P.S: I did catch my train on time
P.S: The girl closed the book and walked up to the same trian as me.
P.S: If the girl in Blue reads my this post, could you please tell me the name of the book???

The Techseer: Freelance Writers Needed

Greeting for the Day all readers

One of my known, works for “thetechseer.com” and the good news of today is they are hiring new freelance writers for content writing for latest technology update and reviews.

If you find yourself keen in getting updates about the latest buzz and/or are interested in publishing with them, please use the contact us page by hitting your browsers with www.thetechseer.com

You may also send in your resume along with an example of your work to admin@thetechseer.com

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Experience of alcohol addiction and over coming from that. Written By Suresh B,

I have faced more problems in my life for the alcohol. This my life is example for who all addicted in alchohal.tha alchohal user’s different types . some people drinks any function times only.some people daily two or more times drinks.some people drink and drive get accidents.some peoples get side effects for the drink alcohol.some peoples doing illegal activates and arrested by police.(1)

Some peoples drink daily and they won’t going jobs.they not sleep properly.some guys stole things from home and sale for buy drinks.they won’t worry about father,mother,wife,children’s and family.they only think about alcohol only.they affect by mentally.they feel very badly about their family and getting unwanted angry on family.they went some where for drinks.they trying suicide.they using always alcohol.(2)

The person who having the habit of drinking will not live happy life and also their neighbours and family.no use of their person.even in childhood day onwards they have this type of habit.they will not accept there.A drunk habit they will not go to job regularly and not take care of their home.they have tha pain for that they think if we take drink mens tha problem solve. Like wise they think.when they started to think this is not our problem that time only they come out from this habit.i can’t able to stop this habit of drinking and using drug.they think we have to stop this habit but they don’t know the way to stop.if we ask will you change?if they have the God’s grace mean it can happen otherwise they face the deth.for this habit we have one way. Alcoholics anonymous if they went to their meeting they can save the life from death . normally he unit not sit & attend this meeting. I f daily went only he can realise why I use this drinking habit why it’s happen to me he can value for a week or for a month or for a year the way he was attending the meeting.(3)

I also face this problem.in 2010 alcoholics anonymous save my life from death.i attend this meeting daily all the 365 days will go 8years are get over. (4)

In forgive girl are having the of drinking so that only many divorce are take place without having tha habit of drinking the family facing many problem.in a family both husband and wife drink means the problem will more.you think and say.we are facing many problem.if we are good but give are excepting more from us.but husband are not like that.so that divorce place.what the men’s thinking same like tha gives are thinking.some girls will not sleep properly so that they have some pain in heart.the girl can think some one is talking something but they think they are talking about us only.become of this they use to put or take drug.they make this as a one habit.sex problem,thinking about there children.they can think if my husband having some relationship with anyone.they can feel more.some girls while walking them talking and go.some girls make suicide.tha problem will be more.some health problem as come. (5)

Those who not have any type of habit they face this problem. Facing many problem they started to use drugs. So they face some pain in heart for this they will not sleep at night they use Internet,cinema, phone. For this we have one meeting. Hear all type of drugs acidizing person they can solve there problem.(6)

Miracle

My life

I am tha addict I born india tamil nadu.when I was in 3 years my father passed away.he also have the habit of drugs alchohal.he work in railway.in home mother, brother, sister in childhood onwards though use alchohal.my father’s brother always use alcohol drugs I see that. He kept half of the glass me and his son use to drink at age of 9.many time we use like that.i don’t have any friend.they won’t send out in used to play near tha Buddha’s temple.there thailand Buddha’s cart be there i play with them.my brothers play cricket play with him.i am study well up to 8std Then is how Less intrst in 10th std. In that time I met with one new friend I use to play with him.at age if 14 we use to take alcohol &drugs so we took more alcohol drugs and return back to home.(7)

I reach home and go to eat my mother see me and ask are your drunk ?yes mom please don’t say to anyone.his mother also say ok and she is not take it seriously and I forget that,whenever my friend get money we use to take alcohol drugs.at tha age 15 my parent are so sticks to me.hans,panparak,mama, cigarette use to take this.i get more friends at tha age of 16 in chennai week by once monthly once I use to take drugs . Saturday and Sunday if any friends come means we won’t forget to take drugs.i learn all that games . cricket is my favourite game.two time I take ganja but I not like that.i studied that time I like to take alcohol alone so I take alcohol alone.i will not go to job properly if went means I go for only one or two only.if I get tha salary I use to spend with in one day in that age I alone & play with my friends that is my habit.(8)

I play cricket league match play well.from this is thought I get job then later using alcohol.i play cricket that also left me alcohol drug habit get more and more. Early morning is used to take at 5am. I like very much to take a alcohol drug in morning.i don’t have money I cheat my mom,brothers and get money to take alcohol drug later sold the thinks in my home from that money i take alcohol drug. At tha age of 24 I become alcohol drug addict.if I tension used to broke all the things and scold my mother in bad words it will not obey my brother words.i some with my friend my mind fully about alcohol drugs. How to use?where to use?whom to use?whom I can get money? That only I think I love one girls I used to take with her.in one day I take drug and talk in phone. I talk badly so she stop talking with me if I with my friends i forget that.in 2004 I went to sabari malai.my brother is a alcohol drug addict.one day he get pain in stomach so we admitted in hospital and take good treatment from that day on wards he stop taking alcohol drugs. After 3 months I started to get pain in stomach pain I can’t able to take food,I can’t able to sit in can’t able to lay down. My brother admitted me in hospital. (9)

I take treatment in tha hospital 10 days. doctor said hear after don’t take any alcohol drugs. 3 months I not take any alcohol drugs.i get a thought to take alcohol drug again so I take alcohol drugs in home itself. my brother watch that started to scold I don’t take it as serious. I take  alcohol drug and travels in bike I met with accident and admitted in hospital 15 days.my brother engaged so I thought hear after I won’t alcohol drug.after 1month I started to take more alcohol drugs.again I started stomach pain I admitted in hospital 7 days and return home safely. again and again I used alcohol drug more and more my brother said hearafter I won’t take care of you.then I said to my sister about my problem. she said you go and admit in hospital I take care of you.(10)

likewise I get tha pancreatic pain again my sister and mother both 12 times admit me in hospital.after my brother marriage is said to my sister is can’t able to feel my pain so please admit me in hospital hearafter I not take alcohol drugs.so she said to their neighbours and admit me in ttk hospital.i was in full alcohol drugs so they ask to come tomorrow. I ask my sister admit in any other hospital.so she admit me in rehabilitation center their I not like so within 10 days I return back my brother home again started the drug habit.within 2 month after marriage he started to take alcohol drugs.so he was get pancreatic pain so he admit in first hospital which I was admitted.he pick up his uncle and mom to hospital.he was working railway so he was admit in that hospital.after 4days he was passed away 15.5.2007 next day moon is no moon day so that evening itself they did all the work for my brother and everyone ask me to promise that hearafter I won’t use alchohal drugs. 3days eagle flying obove our home I was afraid in that time I not understand anything I am not using alcohol drug passed 16 days.again I started no money in my hand so started to use ganja again I ask my sister to admit in that hospital so she admit me in tha addiction rehabilitation center in that night sever stomach pain.(11).

De addiction center they call to my sister after 2days I went to home and see my mom and sister.i said to them i am going to admit in that De addiction cum rehabiltation centre.no they way I move to that centre I used alcohol drug. I am there 15 Aug 2007.35 days I will be there.when coming out meeting you go and attend take tablet regularly they give council. I am not went to meeting but I take tablet properly after 15 days I said to my friends I am going to used alcohol drug.if anything happen please left me in my home.i used alcohol drug suddenly my eyes are in dark red colour.my hand s are getting swearing.i get afraid. so I went home I stop taking tablet.one month is not take tablet but I went to meeting some days I take tablet.my sister call to the rehabilitation center and join me there.morning 6 clk I am using alcohol drug the person are come from that centre pick me up and while moving to that center. I ask alcohol drug they finally give 15 Aug 2008 I am there in that center 2days. (12)

I’m not take tablet not went meeting not take my food properly my hands & legs are started swearing.i went to meeting and ask my senior and tell my stay to him for that he said cum meeting 90 days. I attended 90 days meting there i see one girl she is elder than me I like to talk with her i waiting for her call.i forget taking alcohol drug.i eat well went to job.all my needs are getting I am so happy after 90days.i attend only one meeting in a week.after 120 days I started to use alcohol drugs. I get afraid while I using alcohol they girl left me only one or two meeting only I attend.i thought if start De addiction center means I won’t use alcohol drug. so that be tha member of that center . daily I talk to that girl I will not meet and talk only in phone talk.3times I seen her in Temple. one day she is saying like this I call her daily always is come is come cal waiting cal waiting  till full night it cum cal waiting .early morning also it will come cal waiting .but is going on calling. I will not accept that tha memories are coming back.i am not taking alcohol drug. sleeping is not coming.she is not talking to me one dayIt seemed that someone was going to bury me alive  I telling to my mother and brother is alive only I go and search and coming. then I take my bike some place and return back home while ear song is going in get afraid that thought someone is following me using camera they are following me like that I think and I thought again my sister and mother send to that center I thought then is started to do sucide trying tablet but no one give then I take my

mother saree and hang in fan.but that is not get success.I fell down with the fan(13)

im started to get afraid if I enter the home I Felt that someone is following me.so I went to my sister home and there i started to do sucide. that some fan suicide but my sister seen and she started to shout.so I take the knife is not sharp.then with that knife I punch in my neck their bloods are coming out but nothing happen.again I take the knife punch in my eyes that also nothing happen with that knife I cut my Penis nothing happen take the towel and hang in that in bathroom. my weight is too much so I come out my mom and sister started to shout.we will go and come one place they said but I said  no then I plan to do sucide at the top of my home but it’s short opposite home was 2 floor i went there but the trace was lock then again I come to my house trace if I feel down mean only hands and legs only get broken.so opposite we fell down then only my head broken.i having 3 cigarate but cigarate my plan is change run to Road and fell down after that I don’t know what happen to me.i was in hospital 3to4days nothing is in my mind later they send me in ambulance to take ct scans then only I get remember it was diwali 2009 was admitted in hospital 15 days and reach home. (14)

tha old habit nothing in my head.

4days I was calling that give in pco but she was not pick again that old memories come to my mind.last time I am not used alcohol drug to that only I not die.this time I use tha alcohol drug then we do sucide I plan like that.little bit I used alcohol my mind get block not is my mind.i am go to komastage when I open my eyes I was my home.nothing I understand.from morning to evening I used more alcohol drugs but now little bit also I can’t able to take it don’t know why.at night again I take  alcohol drug my mind bloke so I plan to move thuruvannamalai but I don’t have money so is ell my fridge at cast 500 rupees.with that money i went and left in cutlet. (15)

[19/05, 23:06] Sures: I brought to little level alcohol there.my mind full black out.i don’t know where I am going.i went small village.i don’t have money.what happen to me I don’t know I’m getting thirty I seen one home there is take water it was it was un time I don’t know the way to go main road there was one home went there ask money will you help me that person said no bus now you go and sleep in that temple morning I give money you go bt I walk on tha main road too far.then I think why we walk this much far finally I reach home.my mom call to the center to take me tha after 4days my mother pick me from there feel that some strength is come in my body.i went to play ground see the sun from morning 9 o’clock 10mits I see the sun it was sounding rounding.i get shocked again next day went to same place see the sun again I get shocked . after that I not seen that again tha old memories cum no money in hand sold the cylinder for 1500 I think getting alcohol drugs.(16)

[19/05, 23:06] Sures: I used smal level alcohol.i don’t remember what happen.when I wake up i am In De addiction center November 2009 I am there.i won’t talk to anyone there.one member talk to me ,he said he attend 100 more than meetings.he missed one meeting.27th January 2010 I come home.one day evng 5pm I feel what I see like camera.i afraid about that.same day I admitted in hospital.next day I am all right.i went 200 meetings.again my old memories came.again I thought to suicide.i jumped in road.in my head get injury and blood flow.i admitted in indra gandhi hospital.i went ponducherry.daily I attend the meeting without fail.i attend the meetings.338 day.after I come chennai and attend meetings.2011 January 1st I  get my first medal.i start the de addiction centre.starting 15 days they talk about me very badly.so I leave from them.i star separately, I lose more mony for getting permition for the center.i won’t miss any meetings.(17)

[19/05, 23:06] Sures: I unable to continue the programs due to my sister husband passed away on November 2013.after 2 months,I leave my bike on my home out side.someone stole my bike.bike register in my uncle name so I not give compliant un police. I search my bike in more places but can’t find my bike.again I start De addiction center.they get good response from addict patients.in 2015 heavy rain in chennai.the rain water came inside my center.after 2016 I changed my de addiction center to other place.one day some one called more than 3 times.they talk like rude to me. I cut the call and I won’t talk to him.after 3 months one crime inspector came my center.he called me to police station. I went place station with him in police van.they treat me like criminal.they beat me full day.they show one list to me and asked whose number this I said don’t know.after one month one patient passed away in my de addiction center,they closed my center.october 19th 2016 they arrested me.i did not do anything wrong.they put me on jail.i lose more money.january 4th 2017 I released from jail . January 1st 2018 get 8th medal.daily I am going meeting. (18)

[19/05, 23:06] Sures: the world health organisation said , who all addicted for alcohol in tha world,they all facing the problems in her /his life.so they won’t worry about this problem, because our thoughts only the reason for the afraid.we have solution for this issue.again they use the alcohol it’s create big problems for health.more than 200 countries they conducting the meetings in the world level including india. they conducting in tamil nadu and more than 70 places in chennai.

 

This is not for AA  NA members   Only for newcomers

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Suresh B.

Untold Stories Post 75: Some Thing Like a Phenomenon

I have literally stopped writing UTSP a month before I was planning my trip to India in June 2017. Thus I thought If I would like to start writing again, I should start where I left. This UTSP is a personal page from my dairy written on 26th June 2017.

If this is the first time you are reading my written Untold Stories, then you can catch the previous one’s on my website tapishdongre.com and you can get all the updates of my future work by liking my page on fb. So Lets Begin….again…..

Personal Insecurity : a FORGOTTEN FEELING

This has happen before, and the long forgotten feeling came back.
In our engineering days, there was a phenomenon which use to occur again and again and again. And when so many again are used in a single sentence, its time to give the phenomenon a name, and the name is PARTIAL CONCENTRATION.

Anu (now my wife) and I use to have multiple telephonic conversation in our engineering days, Thanks to wireless mobile communication technology that love stories in early 2000’s had the advantage to verbal communicate frequently. And adding cheery to on top of the cake were “HAPPY HOURS” by the network company called AIRTEL, NIGHT CALLING by IDEA and 24×7 free calling by RELIANCE CDMA.

But though technology is aiding to the love stories, the human mind, heart and emotions are more or less the same, just expressed differently than compared to love stories years before us.

Getting back to cream of the topic that when Anu use to call me, she mostly had a situational busy surrounding to make a call. This aided in a mental barrier in the conversation which did not go frictionlessly. The surrounding mostly consisted of her hostel mates, colleagues or most importantly her parents.

For example if Anu asked me a question in a telephonic conversation, and while its my chance to reply to that question, she use to immediately start guiding anyone else present in her surroundings. And then when I asked, “are you listening to me or the other person?” Very smoothly she use to reply, “yes I am listening to you only”.
But then on asking more, she had no clue what did i just informed her.

And for counter example, if I am asking Anu something, then due to the Partial Concentration, she did not actually listened to what I asked. And thus made me repeat the same dialogues I spoke again and again which boiled my blood more. Her easy escape was to blame it on Network Companies, thus All network companies, if you feel why I am so much angry while calling customer care may be because someone is saying blaming their fault on you.

The overall feeling of this situation is that I use to feel that the person in her surrounding is more important than me. But on her denial to accept this theory, I use to urge her to give full focus on me. She use to say yes, but in next minute or two, she would again start replying to people in her surroundings. Thus this re-occurrence of situation even after correction was termed as “PARTIAL CONCENTRATION”.

The human mind works differently that emotions are concerned. When logically human mind asks for attention and is happy with what is being provided, it stops to wonder. But when mind is unhappy it works more in various directions, where it probably shouldn’t have gone. Thus in these conversations I use to ask Anu to avoid PARTIAL CONCENTRATION while talking with me. She use to agree but then follow the holy ritual path of Partial Concentration.

Then my mind wanted to test the theory what it has formed already. Dose the person in her surrounding is really important than me that she is giving importance to guide, where the sugar is? or has the water filled in toilet tank?, rather than talking about the present topic which discussion was going on.

While mind is buzy in formulating equation, the emotions are working on a very different and parallel scale. Instead of discussing the current issue of being upset, emotions directly changed from a state of ‘like’ to a state of “anger”, from a state of ‘patience’ to a sate of “frustration”, from a state of ‘abundance’ to a state of “dominance”.

Instead of expressing what I feel (which she would not listen due to the Partial concentration phenomenon already) I use to get angry on her and shout on her. And mostly assume the surrounding as my enemy who m I have to share my precious newly found love with.

This use to cause a harsh conversation and then we use to fight more and keep the phone down, sometimes with more force that collecting part backs and switching it on again was a matter of more difficulty than our relation itself.

With years of being together and so, called understanding each other, I assume the feeling doesn’t exist anymore. But as people say, GHOST OF PAST NEVER DIE. In the marriage occasion, when today ANU is kept away from me, buzy in various pooja a day before marriage, she called me at 1.30pm, but even in that call instead of actually talking with me, she started to talk with her mother and father in the background. The years long feeling of self named phenomenon came back. The insecurity that weather the person next is more important or me came back.

We fought and disconnected the phone, did not destroy it this time as they were earned by the money coming out of our own hard work. An hour later I received her call again, asking “what the matter really was?”

There is another theory that with years the relationship gets stronger, or we tend to understand each other more. But seldom this theory is true, I know with years passing the courage to face each other increases and if going on a progressive route the relationship becomes open or close with the passage of time. Former in our case, she asked “what is the real issue with you?” and I replied, “I am really feeling insecure, as if the person surrounding you is more important to you than me itself”

This time she replied, “My love, I am with everyone and this ritual is important to me as I dreamed of it from my childhood. And there is no chance someone is taking your place in my heart. Love will not have a comparison between you and someone but it is abundance that you have given me that I am here to spread it on behalf of you.”

This was an instance which satisfied both mind and emotion to a calm phase. With years, the relationship dose not get stronger, but we have the courage to tell each other the simple truths in life which we lied and dogged in the beginning of the relationship.

Neither I was able to express before I was insecure, nor she had the courage to tell the truth that yes the surrounding holds a momentarily important place. And when these small truth came out, a fearless comfortable zone was created which people misunderstood that relationship gets stronger with time.

Today I would say, that the self discovered phenomenon of “PARTIAL CONCENTRATION” still exist but we found a way to overcome the insecurity part of the equation.

And till we keep discovering a “fearless comfortable zone” in different aspects of our/any relationship, I am sure the relationship will survive all the odds in life 🙂

#tapishdongre #utsp

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Untold Story Post 74: The IMPORTANT THING

 

Apologies for delayed in posting of UTSP but as the post 73 was little a negative topic thus was thinking of important things to write on before all my other usual post. Unfortunately my daily observation and search was going in circles. On top of that I could not find a start or end point. Thus though to sort down some notes and present you where my mind was.

When I was a baby, the only thing I might have focused on was eating and sleeping to make my living possible. I had no clue 100’s and 1000’s of things are going to come in future which at a point are thought to be important.

When past the toddler age, I still had habit to sleep a lot. Babies spent 70% of their life is sleeping, but as soon as you go being a toddler, some sort of instructions tell you from the outer world that STAYING AWAKE is important, How else could you be able to see the beautiful world which is created for you?

When Schooling came, I remembered my teachers focusing on me that remembering A,B,C and 2 to 20 TABLES are important. They form the base of education system (which was later understood forms the base of literal system not the education one)

At class Xth to XII people said, stay away from relationships, at this time EDUCATION is important, MAKING A CARRIER is important. How will you support yourself if you don’t focus in your own stability?

When in Engineering, teachers said again, “LAP-LA’S TRANSFORM” is important, its going to come in your final year of Engineering question paper !

In the same parallel universe, when I turned 18, the suggestion drive on knowing POLITICS and whom to VOTE is important. You want the right people to govern you right?

After All University education, a rush of self responsibility strike with a thunder that EARNING FOR LIVING is important. All the important things before are invalid if you cannot earn to provide yourself two times a meal.

After having a source of income and becoming mechanical re-repeating re-occurring and re-living the same day again and again and again there came some suggestion this time, progress, change, entertainment, peace of mind, work satisfaction, life satisfaction is also important.

Finally after spending sleepless nights to achieve all those things important an advice came from doctor, DUDE TO MAINTAIN EVERYTHING EVENLY ‘SLEEPING’ at least 8 HOURS a day is important.

The cycle of day and night and day after that kept moving and discovering step by step what is important and what is not. What was important before and has no value now. What can be important in future and what should be of important now. The Important things seems fading away in respect of time thus only thing I could remember is really important is was and will be are:

1) TWO TIMES MEAL where ever you can get it from
2) LOVE

There will be several suggestion where you can get the Two times meal, but for getting LOVE its a path everyone had to travel on their own. There is no equations for it, no theoretical rule how to obtain it, no balance to measure it, but I know for a sable life, LOVE is the most important thing which we need.

LOVE coming in all directions from a mother, father, sister, brother, life partner and even from pets, neighbours and unknown person standing on street opposite to you or miles away responding to you by a ping of internet. LOVE is IMPORTANT and Hope you all find it….

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